The Trials of Air Travel and Customer Service

The principal theme of this podcast episode revolves around the fleeting nature of life and the profound impact of personal loss. As I reflect on my visit to Michigan for a somber occasion—the funeral of my sister-in-law—I delve into the complexities of grief and the importance of familial connections. Throughout this discourse, I share my experiences traveling to Port Huron, highlighting the challenges and unexpected delays that can transpire during such journeys. Additionally, I contemplate the changes that occur within one's hometown and the bittersweet nostalgia associated with revisiting past locales. Ultimately, this episode serves as a reminder of the transient moments we encounter and the significance of cherishing our relationships amidst life's inevitable changes.
The discourse presented by Grey Hair Dave delves into the poignant theme of life's transience, underscored by his recent journey to Michigan, necessitated by the somber occasion of a family bereavement. The speaker reflects on the inherent challenges of navigating personal loss, particularly as he observes his brother grappling with grief. This intimate narrative serves as a catalyst for broader contemplations on mortality, the passage of time, and the subjective nature of lived experiences. Dave articulates the complexity of evaluating one's life choices, contending that while many may find clarity in their missteps, such recognition is often elusive. He posits that personal satisfaction can be derived from embracing one’s unique path, even if it diverges from conventional expectations. Furthermore, the podcast transitions into a discussion about travel logistics, illustrating the trials and tribulations associated with air travel, from flight delays to the peculiarities of car rental procedures, thereby grounding his reflections in relatable experiences that resonate with the listener.
Through his narrative, Grey Hair Dave not only addresses the emotional weight of familial loss but also juxtaposes it with the mundane inconveniences of travel, creating a rich tapestry of human experience. He details his interactions at the airport, including his choice of airline driven by a desire to avoid the chaos often associated with budget carriers, and his observations about the inefficiencies encountered at Detroit Metro Airport. This blend of somber reflection and practical commentary highlights the duality of life—where personal sorrow coexists with everyday challenges. Dave's insights into the nature of travel, coupled with his reflections on family and grief, invite listeners to contemplate their own journeys, both literal and metaphorical, while acknowledging the complexities of human emotion that underscore such experiences.
Takeaways:
- The podcast discusses the fleeting nature of life, emphasizing the importance of cherishing each moment.
- Grey Hair Dave reflects on personal experiences during a recent trip to Michigan for a funeral.
- He highlights the challenges and frustrations associated with travel logistics, particularly with car rentals.
- Dave offers insights on how returning to one's hometown can evoke complex feelings of nostalgia and change.
- The episode underscores the significance of compassion and patience in customer service interactions during travel.
- Listeners are encouraged to engage with the podcast through questions and feedback, fostering a sense of community.
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00:00 - Untitled
00:00 - Introduction to Grey Hair Dave
02:28 - Travel Reflections and Family Connections
07:47 - Car Rental Chaos in Detroit
09:24 - The Journey Begins: From Airport to Port Huron
15:05 - Reflections on Returning Home
Welcome to five Minutes with Grey Hair Dave.
Speaker AHe has grey hair.
Speaker AHe has a grey beard and he wears glasses like the guy in the artwork.
Speaker AOh, and the guy in the artwork is better looking.
Speaker ANow here is grey haired Dave.
Speaker AWell, well, well folks, welcome back to five Minutes with Gray Hair Dave.
Speaker AYou'll notice there's no intro today.
Speaker AI am up in Michigan in Port Huron.
Speaker ACame for a very sad occasion.
Speaker AWe lost our sister in law last week.
Speaker AFuneral is tomorrow.
Speaker AAnd so I'm up seeing family and friends and relatives I haven't seen in forever.
Speaker AMeeting grand nieces and grand nephews that I've never met before or haven't seen in 15, 16 years.
Speaker ASo how are you doing folks?
Speaker AI hope you're doing well.
Speaker AI wanted to talk about a couple of things today, so let's dive right in.
Speaker AFirst of all, life is very fleeting.
Speaker AIt's hard to, to tell if you've done it right and it's hard to tell if you've done it wrong.
Speaker AI mean, yeah, there's a lot of people who can tell they've done it wrong, but I mean, realistically, if you think about it, to know when you've done it wrong, it's a, is an eye opener.
Speaker AAnd I'm not saying that I've done it wrong.
Speaker AI did it my way, which is probably not the best way that could have been done, but I did it my way.
Speaker ASo I think my life has been pretty good.
Speaker AI'm proud of my brother for what he's, how he's handling things.
Speaker ABut let's face it, he's.
Speaker AHe's going through grief and he's, it's going to be rough for a while for him.
Speaker AYou know, they, it is.
Speaker ASo, and I don't mean by any means to bring this podcast down.
Speaker ASo I'm gonna, I'm gonna change the, the, the, the subject now to something else.
Speaker AOkay, so planning this trip down here.
Speaker ALet's talk about travel, which most of you, I'm sure have done.
Speaker ATravel.
Speaker AOh my gosh, folks.
Speaker ASo I started out in Orlando on, on Saturday.
Speaker ASo I, I booked the first flight, well, actually the second flight out to Detroit because that's where I had to go.
Speaker AAnd that was fine.
Speaker AI mean, I looked at a bunch of, of flights and I ended up going with Delta only because Spirit Airlines.
Speaker AI keep seeing all these videos online about the craziness of the people who get crazy because of seating and everything else.
Speaker AI'm not saying that they may not be justified.
Speaker AI'm just saying I don't want to deal with that.
Speaker AAnd the time that I would deal with that would probably be on my way back to Orlando, not on my way up to Detroit, who knows?
Speaker ADidn't want to take that chance.
Speaker AAnd I wanted a decent seat.
Speaker ASo I, I flew Delta and I'll be honest with you, Delta's fair was really, really competitive.
Speaker AIt was.
Speaker AI was able to upgrade to a, a comfort main seat, which is old business class.
Speaker AI guess I reminded me of the original economy or coach class.
Speaker AI can't imagine what my seat would have been like further back.
Speaker ASo I upgraded both flights Saturdays and again when I fly back out on Tuesday.
Speaker AIt's just like, wow.
Speaker AAnd we got lucky in our road.
Speaker AThere was just me and one other gentleman and there's three seats.
Speaker ABut the.
Speaker AEither the person didn't show up or never got booked.
Speaker ABut there was a seat in between us, which was nice.
Speaker AThe flight was late.
Speaker AThey let me know the night before that it was going to be an hour late.
Speaker AThat was because of weather in Orlando.
Speaker AYou know, the crew had to get in, has to get certain amount of sleep time and I want them to be awake and ready to go.
Speaker ASo we left maybe 45 minutes late.
Speaker AIn reality, is that a big deal?
Speaker AAbsolutely not.
Speaker AI got through Orlando and I got up, I got up at 4.
Speaker AI took a shower and everything.
Speaker AWent and got everything in the car.
Speaker AWent, parked my car.
Speaker AVery easy, easy to do up close to the terminal.
Speaker AI got lucky because of the time I got there.
Speaker AI, I went through security quickly.
Speaker AI mean it was only about 10 minutes.
Speaker AI got over to my gate and I'm sitting at my gate and I'm watching all these other flights board, which is fun.
Speaker AI enjoy watching things at the airport because I used to work there and I like the people watch and I got some time to do that and the flight was fantastic.
Speaker AYou know, we got into Detroit.
Speaker AUnfortunately, Detroit has this terminal that they built years, few years ago, actually quite a few years ago now.
Speaker AIt's about a mile long.
Speaker AWell, our flight was right about at the very end our gate and they've got moving walkways and they've got this fancy little shuttle that'll take you to and from wherever.
Speaker AI mean all it does is go back and forth.
Speaker AThat doesn't do anything else.
Speaker ABut I didn't take that.
Speaker ASo I took.
Speaker AAnd it's a long walk.
Speaker AAnd then you got to go downstairs to go to the, to the car rental buses, which is fine.
Speaker AEverybody, every airport does that.
Speaker AI made the mistake of going with budget, but I wanted to say this about Detroit Metro.
Speaker AI used to work there.
Speaker AI remember when they were building this and it was, I didn't think, well designed.
Speaker AThey all thought it was the fan.
Speaker AMost fantastic thing ever.
Speaker AEver done.
Speaker AWell, not if you're the customer who's got, you know, a briefcase and, or a backpack and one little bag that, you know, weighs a couple, you know, weighs a few pounds.
Speaker AAnd you're my age, you know, so, yeah, that was a long walk.
Speaker AAnd.
Speaker AAnd their signage could be better.
Speaker AIt really could be better.
Speaker AOn, you know, it doesn't.
Speaker AIt was there, but you had to interpret what they were trying to say.
Speaker AGround transportation can mean a lot of things.
Speaker ABut anyways, I found my.
Speaker AI found my bus.
Speaker AWe get on the bus and the roads, just the road from out of the terminal area over to where the.
Speaker AThe car rental was, was bumpy as can be.
Speaker AAnd it's a relatively new road and they're already reconstructing it.
Speaker AMichigan weathers, they suck.
Speaker AI mean, Michigan winters are harsh on roads.
Speaker AI understand that.
Speaker ASo I get over to my car rental agency and I'm going to call Budget out on this for a bit.
Speaker AI get there, there's a problem.
Speaker AThey got to put A$250.
Speaker AHold on.
Speaker AOn my credit card.
Speaker AI said, why do you have to do that if I have already paid it?
Speaker AWell, that's just the rule, the rules that I have to deal with.
Speaker AI said, okay, fine.
Speaker ASo they go ahead and they charge another 250 to my credit card.
Speaker AWell, I was planning on using part of that 250 that they charged for, you know, for meals and stuff.
Speaker AIt's not that I don't have the money for it.
Speaker AI'm just saying I paid for it already.
Speaker AWhy do I have to pay for it again?
Speaker AAnd I asked the guy right there and I said, you're charging me 250.
Speaker AWhen do I get it back?
Speaker AWhen you bring the car back.
Speaker AI said, same day.
Speaker AHe goes, same day.
Speaker AI go, you sure?
Speaker AHe goes, yes, sir.
Speaker AI go, if not, I'm going to come back here and we're going to have a little conversation, you and I.
Speaker AHe goes, not good.
Speaker AYou get it back the same day.
Speaker AI go, okay.
Speaker ASo he hands me, you know, a little pamphlet with my number on it, and he says, and he puts a big little E on it for what kind of class I bought, I've reserved.
Speaker AHe goes right outside those doors.
Speaker AGrab any car.
Speaker AHe says, keys are in it.
Speaker AI said, grab any car.
Speaker AHe goes, yeah, whatever car you want out there.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker AThat sounded easy enough.
Speaker AI walk out there and there is a line of people gotta be 30, 40 strong, and this small white tent.
Speaker AThey were out of cars.
Speaker ASo I got in this line, I'm talking to people, and I said, you're in a line for a car?
Speaker AYeah, they ran out of cars.
Speaker ANow, you would think at a busy metropolitan airport, they would be prepared.
Speaker AThey have a reservation system that tells them people are coming in, just, just saying.
Speaker ALuckily, they are a partner with Avis Rent a Car, and Avis brought a bunch of cars over, but it wasn't quick.
Speaker ASo as I'm out there dealing, one of the counter agents came out and was helping these poor guys and girls out outside, giving us vehicles, because you don't.
Speaker AJust don't go take one.
Speaker AThere's got to be somebody there to say, this is it.
Speaker AMake sure that everything matches up and off you go.
Speaker ASo I, I, the car finally comes for me.
Speaker AExcuse the noise.
Speaker AThe car finally comes for me.
Speaker AAnd she goes, you're in.
Speaker AYou're an E class.
Speaker AShe goes, this isn't, this is an F class, Mr. Carter.
Speaker AHere you go.
Speaker AThis is what you upgraded.
Speaker AWe're going to upgrade you for free.
Speaker AIt's not going to cost you any more.
Speaker AShe goes, I'm sorry for the inconvenience.
Speaker AAnd she apologized.
Speaker AFirst person had, had apologized to me that day, and I thanked her for that.
Speaker AI said, I really, really appreciate that.
Speaker AYou don't know how much.
Speaker ASo I got my, my little rental car, which is not a little rental car.
Speaker AThey upgraded me to a Mazda CX50, which is a very nice vehicle, brand new.
Speaker AIt only had, like, not under.
Speaker AIt had under 4, 000 miles.
Speaker AAnd again, I'm starting to drive.
Speaker AAnd I'm driving down i94, which is the main expressway, which is going to take me all the way to where I want to go.
Speaker ATakes me all the way from Detroit to Port Huron.
Speaker ASo drive along, drive along.
Speaker AAll of a sudden, there's a little construction and the road sucks, but it always does.
Speaker AAnd going along, going along, all of a sudden see signs, not very good at it, but the signs that say, construction ahead, right, Two lanes merge left.
Speaker AWell, of course, I start merging left right away.
Speaker AAnd I think that part of that's from my trucking days, because sooner you get over, the less problems you have.
Speaker AAnd so all of a sudden, the two, the two lanes have disappeared.
Speaker AAnd that took a while because everybody in the left two lanes goes, oh, I gotta wait till the very last minute to get over.
Speaker ADon't do that.
Speaker ABut anyways, everything Buddy's got to do, got to get over.
Speaker AAnd then they say freeway's closed.
Speaker AIt's like, huh?
Speaker AOne sign says take Michigan to livernois.
Speaker ABack to 94.
Speaker AOne sign.
Speaker AAnd if you miss it, you don't know where the heck you're going.
Speaker AIf you're not.
Speaker AIf you don't have any idea where you're going.
Speaker ASo I get off with everybody else.
Speaker AI'm following everybody else.
Speaker AIf you know the Detroit area, the area I was in was not the most favorable portion of town in Detroit.
Speaker AI can't imagine what it's like to have to live there.
Speaker ABut people are living there and they're, they're doing just fine.
Speaker ABut it was almost all the way to downtown before I could get back on the expressway.
Speaker AAnd so I did.
Speaker AWell, so that took an extra 15 minutes or so anyways come to for the whole.
Speaker AI don't want to go into every detail, but we had another slowdown again because we lost a couple of lanes.
Speaker AAnd then it was pretty much smooth sail and a trip that should have taken me an hour and 15 to an hour and 30 minutes to get.
Speaker AIt took me just a little over two hours.
Speaker AFine.
Speaker AI'd made a reservation at a hotel or a motel in Port Huron and only would be here two nights.
Speaker AI didn't want to spend a whole lot of money.
Speaker AYou know, I'm not going to be in it a lot.
Speaker ABut you know, so I made a reservation and I get here and there's two or three people in front of me in line and this, this really nice girl at the counter, she's doing her.
Speaker AShe's giving great customer service.
Speaker ABut it took me another half an hour to check in.
Speaker AAnd I am at this point on a time crunch in a sense.
Speaker AThe viewing on Saturday was from 6 to 8 that I was going to go to.
Speaker AWell, by the time I got to my room and got checked, got to the hotel, which I got to the hotel at 4:30.
Speaker AI landed folks in Metro at 12:15.
Speaker AIt should not have taken me four hours to get to Fort Huron, let alone longer than that, but it did.
Speaker ASo I get here and there's a line and then there's a family got a problem in that line.
Speaker ASo I finally get up there and this nice young girl, she checks me in.
Speaker AShe goes, Ms. Carter, I'm sorry for the delay.
Speaker AShe goes, I'm going to upgrade your room, you know, for you being so nice and patient.
Speaker AI said, okay, that's very nice.
Speaker AShe goes, and it's ready.
Speaker AOh, fantastic.
Speaker ASo it's on the first floor, which is convenient.
Speaker AIt's, you know, it's got a refrigerator and a.
Speaker ADoesn't have a microwave, but I don't need a microwave.
Speaker AA refrigerator is nice for, you know, for my Diet Coke and my beer.
Speaker AIt's a nice room.
Speaker AI think it's the room that I requested originally, but it doesn't matter.
Speaker AShe did a nice thing.
Speaker AAnd I'm very, very happy with the service so far.
Speaker ASo, folks, if you've ever moved away from your hometown, you're going to understand what I'm trying to say now.
Speaker AWhen they say you can't go back, you can go back, but it's not the same.
Speaker AIt's usually not any better.
Speaker AI'm going for a drive today to see a few sites and to do a few things that I'd wanted to do while I was here.
Speaker AOne was go visit my parents grave and just see the old house I grew up in and, you know, get a bite to eat.
Speaker ABut the city's changed and the people haven't, if that makes any sense at all to you folks.
Speaker AAnd I'm not saying that to diminish or to insult the people who live here.
Speaker AIt's just everybody looks the same as they did when I left.
Speaker ABut when you go.
Speaker AI guess because I live in a.
Speaker AIn an area where there are such diversity of cultures, you don't really get that this far up north.
Speaker AThat's what I wanted to talk about today.
Speaker AThanks for the patience.
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Speaker AThey may be having a bad day, and your smile or nice, thank you is going to make their day.
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Speaker AI can't wait to talk to you again next week when I get back home.
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